傲慢与偏见读后感

《傲慢与偏见》读后感

以青年男女的恋爱婚姻为题材的小说故事很多,情感是人生的一门课程,在这门课程上,有些人上得很好,有些人的却一塌糊涂。该如何处理我们的情感?随岁月而成长吧。

《傲慢与偏见》也是这样一部以男女青年的恋爱婚姻为题材的小说。然而,同其他作品不同的是,这部小说以男女主人公的爱情纠葛为主线,共计描写了四起姻缘,是作者最富于喜剧色彩,也是最引人入胜的一部作品。奥斯丁在书中通过四起婚事的对照描写,提出了道德和行为的规范问题。

首先,作者明确划定了婚姻的“好坏”标准。照奥斯丁看来,不幸的婚姻大致有两种情况:一像夏洛特和柯林斯那样,完全建立在经济基础上;二像莉迪亚和威克姆那样,完全建立在美貌和****的基础上。夏洛特本是个聪明女子,只因家里没有财产,人有长的不漂亮,到了二十七岁还是个“老姑娘”。她所以答应嫁给笨伯柯林斯,只是为了能有个“归宿”,有个能确保她不致挨饿受饥的“保险箱”,婚后尝不到任何天伦之乐,她倒也“无所谓”。这在一定程度上反映了妇女的可悲命运。莉迪亚是个轻狂女子,因为贪恋美貌和感情冲动的缘故,跟着威克姆私奔,后经达西搭救,两人才苟合成亲,但婚后不久即“清淡爱弛”,男的常去城里寻欢作乐,女的躲到姐姐家里寻求慰藉。与夏洛特、莉迪亚相反,伊丽莎白和简的婚事是建立在爱情的基础上,这是真正的美满姻缘。诚然,伊丽莎白与达西也好,简与宾利也好,他们的结合并不排除经济和相貌方面的考虑,但是他们更注重对方的丽质美德,因而结婚以后,尽管在门第上还存在一定差异,夫妻却能情意融洽,恩爱弥笃。尤其是伊丽莎白,她对达西先拒绝后接受,这充分说明:“没有爱情千万不能结婚”。

其次,作者认为,恋爱婚姻既然是关系到终身幸福的大事,那就一定要严肃谨慎,切不可让表面现象蒙住了眼睛。伊丽莎白因为受到达西的怠慢,便对他产生了偏见,而当“风度翩翩”的威克姆向她献殷勤时,她便对他产生了好感,直至听信他的无耻谰言,进一步加深了她对达西的偏见和憎恶,后来她自责地说,她所以会做出这种蠢事,完全是虚荣心在作怪。事实证明:“初次印象”是不可靠的,而偏见又比无知更可怕。

另外,《傲慢与偏见》向我们表明,恋爱婚姻不仅是个人问题,而且也是个社会问题。人们考虑婚姻大事,不能只光顾着自己,还要对亲友负责,对社会负责。

这是个曲折但却也美丽的爱情故事,主人公伊丽莎白是个勇于追求爱情、漂亮聪明、坚强可爱的中产阶级女子。故事主要以她对达西先生从一开始的厌恶到尊敬,再到爱慕为线索,也穿插了在几个发生在她身边的幸福或不幸的婚姻,揭示了作者对那个时代女人生活与爱情的理想和期望。故事中女主角伊丽莎白第一眼看到男主角达西就是不顺眼的,加上男主角个性的傲慢,继而对他有了偏见。而男主角达西,是个不受人欢迎的傲慢男子,也不屑于周遭冷淡的人际关系,对他来说,傲慢也许是有理的,偏见却很无情,这两者产生的冲击是免不了的。两个人之间也因此而常有针锋相对的言辞,彼此之间的傲慢和偏见就造成了一开始的不愉快与误解,但是经过种种事件的澄清,彼此又渐渐产生一点点的感情。达西代表着“傲慢”,伊丽莎白代表着“偏见”,他们一开始都被自己的情绪所牵引。接着一连串对达西不利的流言,更让伊丽莎白对达西反感。当达西向伊丽莎白求婚而遭到拒绝时,他说了一句话:“要是我耍一点手段,把我内心的矛盾掩饰起来,一味地恭维你,使你相信我无论在理智方面、思想方面以及其他各方面,都是对你怀着无条件的纯洁的爱,那么也许你就不会有这些苛刻的责骂了。可惜无论是什么样的伪装,我都痛恨。”达西没有为了讨好伊丽莎白,而改变他的傲慢性情。伊丽莎白也表现了很真实的自己,彼此都不刻意去营造给人的印象,表现出了最真实的一面。而开始的时候,伊丽莎白一直活在自己的偏见之下,而忽略思考事实的真相,经过达西的解释和自己的判断,才最终找到幸福的归宿。 傲慢与偏见,是我们很常见的弱点和毛病。每一个人其实都很容易被自己的主观印象所驱使,因而容易对别的人下不正确的注解,进而造成了彼此之间的误会。一个人所给予的第一印象固然可以影响到很多事,但并非一定不会改变,要有更加深入的了解,才能有更客观一点的论点,就好像故事中女主角对达西的看法,就是因为了解才有所改变。生活需要了解和沟通,只有在彼此了解的基础上才能给一个人下定论。

 

第二篇:傲慢与偏见读后感

Pride and prejudice

Pride and prejudice is the masterpiece of Jane Austen, who is the famous writer in England. This classical novel vividly reflects the town life and human relationships of England during the late of the18th century to the early of the 19th century. Due to its special style, it attracts so many readers till now.

This story mainly talks about life and marriage. Mr Bennets is an English gentleman living in the Longbourn, who has five daughters, the beautiful Jane, the clever Elizabeth, the bookish Mary, the immature Kitty and the wild Lydia, and an ignorant and ill-informed wife. Since Mr Bennets has no son, his property is entirely inherited by his distant relation, William Collins. Therefore once he is dead, his wife and daughters wouldn’t have any guarantee. However, Mrs. Bennets is always seeking the wealthy person as her daughters’ husbands. Mr Bingley is the new comer to the town with large fortune. And his friend Darcy is a conceited person who looks downed on the lower class. Although their love roads are full of twists and turns, at last Mr. Bingley and Jane fall in love with each other; Elizabeth also accept the engage of Mr. Darcy. In this novel, “pride” mainly refers to Mr. Darcy, while “prejudice” mainly refers to Elizabeth’s prejudice against Darcy.

According to the five girls’ different solutions of their own marriage, the author expresses the young ladies’ distinguished attitudes toward love

and marriage. Thus we can see the author’s value of marriage that marriage for estate, money and status is wrong, while not considering such factors is also stupid. She emphasizes the importance of the ideal marriage and regards the emotion as the fundamental factors.

In my opinion, love is pure, beautiful without any harmful motivations. And marriage needs the both parts’ trust and respect, as well as a sense of responsibility. For most people, marriage is just one chance in all their life; therefore they should think twice before it or they would be sorry for themselves.

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