家规、家训、家风

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维护社会秩序的三大力量：法律、道德、文化

延续家兴业旺的三大传统：家规、家训、家风

家庭是构成社会的基本单位，在社会主义精神文明的指导下，每个家庭在不违背国家法律、道德、文化的前提下制定现代家庭的家规、家训，形成良好家风；借助互联网家谱为工具传承家文化（家规、家训、家风），延续家兴业旺，谱泽后世；实现幸福家庭的四大目标：和谐、文明、健康、富有。

家规：

家规是指一个家庭所规定的行为规范，一般是由一个家族所遗传下来的教育规范后代子孙的准则，也叫家法。所谓“国有国法，家有家规”就是指一个国家有一个国家的法律，一个家庭有一个家庭的规矩；这个家庭的规矩就相当于国家的法律。孟子曰：“不以规矩，不成方圆”。一个家庭要想兴旺发达，做人做事都要懂得讲规矩。家人违背家规就要像国民触犯法律一样受到处罚。

家训：

家训是指对子孙立身处世、持家治业的教诲。家训，是中国传统文化的重要组成部分，也是家谱中的重要组成部分，它在中国历史上对个人的修身、齐家发挥着重要的作用。道德包括社会公德、职业道德、家庭美德等等，家训属于家庭美德的范畴。家国同构，一个家庭的家训相当于一个国家的道德标准，如曾国藩家训、朱子家训、颜氏家训等等。家训即是家人做人的道德标准，违背家训，就会遭受道德的谴责。

家风：

家风是指一个家庭或家族的传统风尚。也就是说一个家庭的生活方式、文化氛围即构成了家风。顾名思义，家风就是一个家庭的风气、风格与风尚。换一句话说，当一个家庭的家规、家训形成家庭的公众行为习惯即构成了家风，家风也就是一个家庭或一个家族的家文化。家谱即是承载家文化的工具，互联网家谱是新一代承载家文化的工具。

家谱：

家谱就是记述家族血缘集团世系的载体。这个定义包含了“记”和“述”两个方面的家谱。“记”的家谱主要指文字家谱；“述”的家谱主要指口传家谱。家谱，亦称族谱、宗谱、家乘、通谱、统谱、世谱、支谱、房谱等；主要分为书本家谱和非书本家谱；书本家谱即是书写、印刷在纸上装订成册的家谱；非书本家谱主要有：口传家谱、结绳家谱、甲骨家谱、青铜家谱、碑谱、塔谱、布谱、神轴图谱、光盘家谱、互联网家谱。

您的家庭有家谱吗？

没有家谱的家庭，如断根浮萍，无法感知世代传承的家族力量；

没有收藏家谱的家庭，缺乏孝文化教育的工具；

没有家规的家庭，缺乏做人做事的规矩；

没有家训的家庭，缺乏教育子女做人的标准；

没有家风的家庭，缺乏延续家兴业旺的环境。

您的家庭属于什么之家？

古人云：

有家谱的家庭，属于耕读靠谱之家；

有收藏家谱的家庭，属于名门望族之家；

有家谱、有家规的家庭，属于书香门第之家；

有家谱、有家规、有家训的家庭，属于豪门贵族之家；

有家谱、有家规、有家训、有家风的家庭，属于王侯将相之家。

王侯将相，宁有“谱”乎？答案是：有谱！

 

第二篇：作文家规

九年级英语书面表达专题训练五

优秀范文赏析

原题再现：请你结合家庭的实际情况，根据下面的提示和要求，以My Family Rules为题，写一篇短文。 提示：1. 家里有哪些家规；2. 对家规的感受；3. 对父母的建议。

九年（1）班 林晶晶

Life will be better because of some rules. And for a family, the rules seem to be important, too. In my family, there are some rules. For example, first, I have to get back home on time. If I don’t do that, my parents will be worried and look for me everywhere. I think as a teenager, we should make our parents trust us so I always obey this rule. Secondly, my parents are always against me going out with friends on school nights. Another thing that makes me very angry is that I can’t watch TV, or play computer games even on weekends. My parents always say I have to concentrate more on my study which is the most important thing to me. Luckily, I am allowed to listen to music when I feel tired. I’m so happy to have a little time to relax myself after the tiring day.

In a word, I think my parents care for me much. I’m sure if they can change some unfair rules or make them more reasonable, especially give me more freedom, I will live a happier life.

九年（2）班 黄梦瑶

In order to make our life and study better, our parents always make some family rules that we have to obey .for us. So does my family.

First of all, I have to get back home on time. It’s not difficult for me. Second, I’m not allowed to watch TV or surf the Internet on school nights. Although\ I think it’s too strict for me, I know they want me to concentrate more on my study. What’s more, I need to clean my room by myself. It’s my duty to do some chores to help my parents. The worst thing is I can’t hang out with my friends at night on weekends. Because they think it’s dangerous for such a young girl to go out at night. But I disagree with them. I think it’s necessary for me to have my own time to relax myself after a busy week.

In my opinion, every coin has two sides. On the one hand, family rules make family members get on well with each other, on the other hand, some of the unfair rules make me feel unpleased, even a little angry. So I hope my parents can give me more freedom to do the things I like to do. I also suggest they should make the family rules more reasonable.

九(3)班 周小倩

Different families have different family rules. Of course, I have my own family rules.

For instance, I have to get home on time. It’s dangerous for teenagers to stay out late. And my parents don’t allow me to play computer games. Because my parents think it will get in the way of my study. It’s also good for protecting my eyes. What’s more, I am supposed to do chores when I am free. It can not only give me a special experience but also give my parents more time to rest. Besides, I have to stay at home on weekends.

I hope to have more freedom. I am sure I am old enough to make decisions about what I love to do.

九（4）班 陈芳芳

There are many rules in my house and I am not happy.

For example, I have to get up early every morning, even on weekends. My parents ask me to practice my speaking English. I have to do my homework after school and go over what I learnt. I have to go home on time. I can’t watch TV or play computer games on school nights. Because my parents don’t think they are good for my study. As you know, my parents are strict with me.

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I know my parents want me to do well in my study. But these rules make me feel really tired. It’s necessary for me to have a relaxing time. I hope my parents can be relaxed about me. I am not a child, I know what I should do. The less rules I have, the happier I will be. I really want to have a free time and do something what I like to do.

庄 恒 九（5）

In order to make study better, my parents have made many family rules. But I hate my family rules because some of them are too strict. For example, I have to go right home after school. I can’t stand it. As an active boy, I like to play sports in the playground with my classmates. Another rule that I can’t stand is I am not allowed to play computer games anytime. Sometimes I am too stressed out to go on studying. As you know, playing computer games is a good way to relax ourselves. What’s worse, I am not allowed to talk with others on the phone. And I think it’s necessary for teenagers to communicate with each other.

In my opinion, my family rules should be changed. My parents should give me more time and chances to relax myself. Maybe I should be allowed to play computer games for a short time after study on weekends.

曾轩昂 九（6）

There are not many family rules. And I don’t think they are too strict. Instead, I find it helpful to follow most of them.

For example, I am not allowed to play computer games or chat online during the weekdays. I think it’s good for my study. And I have to go to bed earlier than 10:00 pm. Of course, I like the rule. It’s good for my health. Another rule is that I must finish my homework before I surf the Internet on weekends. I also have some other family rules. They have never made me feel uncomfortable except one that I can’t go out to have fun with friends on weekends.

In my opinion, sometimes parents should allow their children to do what they like. As for me, I hope I can be allowed to spend more time with my friends on weekends, such as doing sports or studying in groups. It’s helpful for us to grow up better.

黄亨 九（7）

A country has its laws and a family has its rules. There are many rules in my family to make the members get along better.

And some of them are aimed at me. For example, I have to get home on time. Second, I can’t play computer or watch TV on school nights. I think I’m pitiful because of these rules. That rule which I can’t stand is too funny. My parents don’t allow me to get up late even on weekends. How amazing it is! I have to get enough sleep to rest in these days.

I think I should communicate with them.. I believe if I can get more rest, I can do better in study. I’m not a child. I’d like to look after myself. Everyone I’m supposed to do something. Thanks to the rules, we can do better.

陈林玲 九（8）

Every family has their own family rules.

In my family, I’m supposed to help my mom do chores. I’m not allowed to play computer or watch TV before finishing doing homework. Another rule I can’t stand is that I can’t go shopping with friends at any time.

As a child like me, I know parents want me to have better habits. But in fact, I don’t have freedom at all and feel unhappy because of the rules. I suggest parents should believe me and then give me more free time to do what I love. I won’t let them down if they do it.

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李齐飞 九（9）

I have some family rules in my family.

First, I have to come back home on time. As we all know, parents are always afraid when we stay outside. Besides, I am not allowed to play the computer games. They think playing computer games can take a lot of time, so that we don’t have enough time to study. I think I can understand. In addition, I should clean my room on weekends. Furthermore, I can’t go to my friends’ house on school nights, even on weekends. I think these are too strict for me. But I know, they are all of my parents’ love.

To speak frankly, I want to ask my parents to give me some more freedom to do something that I want to do.

潘倩倩 九（10）

There some family rules in my family. I think some of them are good. However, some of them are too strict for me.

First, I have to get home on time. And I’m not allowed to play computer games and watch TV because my parents think they are bad for study. What’s more, I can’t go outside in the evening except my parents go with me. Besides, I need to go to bed on time every day and I have to get up early even on weekends.

I know most family rules are good for me. But I’m no longer a kid and I know what I should do. I want to have freedom to do what I like to do . I really hope my family rules can change a little.

九（11）班 李适之

East or west, home is the best. I love my family. But I have a lot of family rules in my home and some of them are too strict.

First of all, I’m not allowed to play computer games or watch TV on weekdays. Because my parents think watching TV can get in the way of my study. Secondly, I must go home after school and I ’m not allowed to play basketball with my classmates. They think playing basketball too much will make me too tired and it is also bad for my study. Besides, when I get home, I have to start doing my homework right away. What’s worse, I still have to get up early on weekends because I need to go to extra classes and do my homework all the time on weekends. As a result, I have no time to relax myself on weekends. How tired I am!

In my opinion, my parents should allow me to do what I love to do. I hope I can have some time to play basketball after school or on weekends.. After all, playing basketball is my favorite and it can make me stronger and healthier.

九（12）班 蒋璐璐

There are lots of family rules in my home. Some of them are too tired and I hate them.

For example, I have to get home on time after school. If I get home until 6:oo pm, my parents will be angry with me. And I am not allowed to play computer games, even on weekends. They think playing computer games too much can get in the way of my study. Besides, I can’t watch TV before I finish my homework. One thing that makes me very angry is that I can’t watch TV, or play computer games even on weekends. My parents always say I have to concentrate more on my study which is the most important thing to me.

In my opinion, I should be allowed to do what I love to do on weekends. I can be allowed to watch TV or play computer games on weekends. After all, I need time to relax myself. Sometimes I also want to go to to movies with my friends on weekend nights, In this way I can relax myself and communicate more with my friends. 3

王茸 九（13）

My parents are very strict with me and they made many rules which I must obey.

First, I must finish my homework in time because they hope I can get good grades. I think it’s good for my study. Second, I can’t play computer games, even in my free time or on weekends. It’s too strict. Maybe playing computer games is a good way to relax myself. Third, I am not allowed to talk with my friend on the phone for long.

To my parents, I want to tell them to think more of me. I am 16 years old, not a kid. I know what I can do and what I can’t do. I have my own world and I need more space, just for myself. I hope my family rules can make my life better in the future.

陈显锟 九（14）

Different families have different family rules. In my home, there are so many family rules that I have little time to relax. I couldn’t hang out with my friends after school. I have to get home on time. That’s too bad for me, because I like spending time with my friends. I’m not allowed to play computer games. What’s worse? I can’t watch TV on weekends. It’s too strict.

As a teenager, I think I should have some time to do what I love to do. On weekends, I enjoy playing basketball with my classmates. It not only relaxes myself, but also good for my health. I think I should be allowed to study with my friends, too. In this way, we can learn from each other.

Although the family rules are strict sometimes, they’re good for me. So get used to them, my friends.

郑增乾 九（15）

In my family, there are many rules that we can’t break. For example, I can’t watch TV on school days. And I am not allowed to listen to music, too. These always make me too tied to study better. I have to go home on time and don’t stay outside too late on school nights. I agree to do that because it is for my safety. But I don’t agree that I have to study for many hours on weekends. I need time to relax myself.

However, most of the rules are good for me. They make me safer. I am only against that I haven’t enough time to relax. I wish my parents can give me more time to do what I want to do.

What about your family rules?

余清野 九（16）

My family rules always make me unhappy. Yes, they are too strict. For instance, I can’t sing songs when I am lying on the bed. My parents think it’s bad for my sleep. But I don’t think so, because singing beautiful songs before sleeping usually makes me an hour to play computer games, they will say “ The exam is coming.” “Your homework hasn’t finished yet to me.” What a terrible thing! I like basketball , but my parents are not allowed me to play basketball every week, they think basketball is too dangerous to play. They often think I will get injured if I play basketball with other strong men. In fact, I won’t get injured because I am also strong. To my surprise, my mom has another reason that she thinks I should study instead of wasting time on the playground.

In a word, I don’t like my family rules, the rules make be like a bird in the cage . I think my parents should allow me to do more things that I want to do. I am not a kid, I have my own thought. So the terrible family rules, please become fewer and fewer!

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