Dear ___________

[第1句. Acknowledge the loss.]

I was deeply saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of your father.

[第2句. Express your sympathy. ]

My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. We are all in a state of shock.

[第3句. Remind the bereaved of their personal strengths or special qualities.]

I know you will miss your father greatly. During this difficult time, I know you will draw upon your own strength and the strength of loved ones that hold you in their thoughts.

[附加句1.Note special qualities of the person if you knew him.]

Your Father was such a funny, entertaining and supportive person to be around. He was often a bright spot in my day. I will miss seeing him.

[附加句2. Include a memory about the person if you knew him.]

I remember one time when ___________...

[第4句. Offer Assistance. ]

You have my deepest sympathy. I will be in touch to see if you need help with the memorial service.

[第5句. End with a thoughtful word or phrase. ]

Remember there are people around you who care about you and are thinking about you in this difficult time of sorrow.

Sincerely/Fondly/Love,

Your Name

I am sorry to hear the saddening news. Please accept my heartfet condolences on the loss of your dearest father. With all that you did during his lifetime and are doing at the moment for him, he will surely rest in peace.

这类书信文字宜简洁诚挚,不宜花俏,更该避开忌讳语如death等.听到噩耗,不是shocked,而是saddened,如:I am saddened to hear the passing away of your dearest father.

中式

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节哀顺变（Restraining your grief and accommodating change）

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西式

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我感受到你的痛苦（I know how you feel）

痛苦将消失（The pain will go away）

很快的，您将感觉好点（You'll feel better soon）

I was deeply saddened when I learned about xxx's passing.

My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.

Please accept my sympathy for the loss of your (grandfather).

Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

以上都可以采用，简洁一句，不必太长

she/he(看去世的人的性别决定） is in a better place ,but she/he will always be with you so just be strong cuz life goes on 他去了一个更好的地方，但他会永远跟你在一起。所以要坚强因为生命还是要继续的

Hearing this news, I'm so sorry.I hope you cheer up，I will always be with you，Is there anything I can help for you,just tell me

听到这个消息，我非常遗憾，我希望你能振作起来，我会一直陪着你，要是有什么我可以帮助到你的，尽管告诉我。

am really pity,and everything will be all right .God bless kind men .we will always be with you .如果可以，给她一个拥抱，让她感受你的温度...这时候不用讲很多，她会明白的

I am sorry for your loss一般就可以了

惊闻令尊化羽，哀之。望节哀顺变之。

或者I'm sorry to hear your father's death.I'm always here,and,he lives in our heart forever

Sorry to hear that. Please don't be too sad.

If there's anything I can help, please let me know.

Do not mourn the dead, for he(she) is living happily with the Lord forevermore./He's in God's embrace

It was with deep regret that I learnt the heart-rendingnews of the passing away of... 惊悉---去世的噩耗,我悲痛万分.

I share in your sadness

你的哀伤,我感同身受

My thought is with you on this sad occasion

在这个时刻,我与你同感悲伤

XXX will always be held in high esteem

某某将永远受到尊敬

Please accept my sincerest sympathies

请接受我最诚挚的关怀

Just take one day at a time

节哀顺便

I am sorry to hear that bad news. He's a good guy and God will take care of him in the heaven for ever.

Hearty condolence to you may you have strength to bear this great affliction. 致以深切的慰问并望节哀自重。

my dear friend, i am so sorry to hear this grieved news. I could understand now you must be in great sadness, but just keep your braveness and your XXX will bless for you to have happy life.

sorry to hear that.let's move on.

I was deeply saddened to hear about the grieved news.

I know how difficult this must be for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I encourage you to draw on your strength and the strength of your family.

May God bless you and your family during this time and always,

Really sorry to hear this news, let us for your loved ones in heaven peacefully pray the way and miss the passing days with him or her forever

He/she must be in heaven and hoping to see that u r living a happy life.

生活中谁没有过力不从心的时候？谁没有过几近成功却放弃的时候？别人信心不足时同情和安慰别人是人人都能做到的事。你知道如何用英语去安慰别人吗？

一、 Don''''t worry. 别担心。（劝告对方别担忧）

a. — Is my illness serious? 我的病严重吗？

— Don''''t worry. You''''ll be well soon. 别担心，你很快就会好的。

b. — Can I pass the exam? 我能通过这次考试吗？

— Don''''t worry. I think you can. 别担心，我认为你能通过。

二、 Don''''t be afraid. 别担心。（劝告对方别担心）

a. — Will he agree to see me? 他会同意见我吗？

— Don''''t be afraid. 别担心。

b. — Will the exam be very difficult? 考试会很难吗？

— Don''''t be afraid. 别担心。

三、 It''''ll be OK/all right. 行，没问题。（使对方放心）

a. — Will my plan work? 我的计划会起作用吗？

— It''''ll be OK/all right. 没问题。

b. — Will the meeting succeed? 会议会成功吗？

— It''''ll be OK/all right. 没问题。

四、 It''''s all right. 没问题。（请对方宽心）

a. — Will you help me with my English? 你会帮助我学英语吗？

— It''''s all right. 没问题。

b. — Will the car pass the test? 汽车能通过检验吗？

— It''''s all right. 没问题。

五、 Well done! 干得不错！（肯定、鼓励对方工作）

a. — What do you think of my article ？你认为我的文章怎么样？

— Well done. 写得不错。

b. — Is my work OK? 我的工作还行吗？

— Well done. 干得不错。

六、 You can do it! 你肯定行！（肯定对方能力）

a. — I''''m afraid I can''''t pass the exam. 恐怕这次考试我过不了关。

— You can do it! 你肯定行！

b. — I wonder whether I can finish the task in time. 我不知道是否能及时完成这项任务。 — You can do it! 你肯定行！

七、 Come on! 别灰心。（劝告对方别灰心）

a. — I''''m afraid I can''''t succeed. 恐怕我难以成功。

— Come on! 别灰心。

b. — I''''ll not learn English any longer. I can''''t remember all these words. 我不想学英语了，我记不住这么多单词。

— Come on! 别灰心。

八、 That''''s better. Keep trying. 有长进，继续努力。（肯定对方的进步）

a. — What do you think of my homework? 你认为我的家庭作业做得怎么样？

— That''''s better. Keep trying. 有长进，继续努力。

b. — Is my composition still bad? 我的作文还是不好吗？

— That''''s better. Keep trying. 有长进，继续努力。

 

第二篇：怎样用英语安慰人

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1. Pull yourself together. 振作起来。

2. Keep your chin up. 别灰心。

3. Don't let it get you down. It will be over with soon. 别为此烦恼。事情很快就会过去的。

4. Don't be so miserable! 别这愁眉苦脸的。

5. Cheer up! things will work out for the best. 高兴点儿。事情会有好结果的。

6. Take heart- we'll find a way out.

振作起来，我们会有办法的。

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7. Keep trying! Don't give up the ship. 继续努力! 别轻易放弃!

8. Loosen up! It's not worth getting upset about. 放松点儿！不值得为这件事苦恼。

9. Hang in there. Things will get better. 坚持住，情况会好起来。

10. Keep smiling! things will calm down. 乐观一点，事情会平息下来的。

11. It's not as bad as all that. 事情没有那么糟。

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12. Things are never as bad as they seem. 事情往往不像看上去的那么糟。

13. Win a few, lose a few. That's life. 有得也有失，生活就是如此。

14. Let's look on the bright side. 我们来看看它好的一面。

15. Every cloud has a silver lining. 再黑暗的地方也有一线光明。

16. When god closes a door, he opens a window. 山不转水转。

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17. Tomorrow is another day. 有明天就有希望。

18. Stop carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. 别太操心了，没有你地球照样转。（carry the weight of the world on one's shoulders：自以为重任在肩。）