借钱伤害友谊吗？Does Borrowing Money Hurt Friendship?

When you need a lot of money, you first thing you do is to borrow money from your friend, while doing this sometimes may do harm to your friendship. First, your friends may not have too much money at hand, he or she maybe suffer from the lack of cash flow at that moment. Everyone has their own worries, when you borrow money, they always have to struggle for a while, their hesitations make you begin to doubt your friendship is true or whether your friends treat your as real one. Second, most people can't return the money in time, because they have all kinds of difficulties, this will make your friends in a awkward situation. They are considering whether to ask you return the money, if they do, this will make you embarrassed; If they don't, they will lack of money. So it is better not to borrow money from your friend.

当你需要很多钱的时候，你第一件事做的就是向你朋友借钱，然而这样做有时候会伤害你的友谊。第一，你的朋友也许没有很多的钱在手上，他或她可能遭遇着流动资金的不足。每个人都有他们自己的担忧，当你借钱的时候，他们总要挣扎一会，他们的犹豫让你开始怀疑你们之间的友谊是否真实或者你的朋友是否把你真当朋友。第二，大部分人不能及时还钱，因为他们有各种各样的困难，这会让你朋友出于尴尬的境地。他们考虑着是否叫你还钱，他们叫了，会让你尴尬；如果不叫，他们就缺钱。所以最好不要向你的朋友借钱。

 

第二篇：关于借钱给人的问题About Borrowing Money to Others

关于借钱给人的问题

About Borrowing Money to Others

Borrowing money is a sensitive issue, some friends become strangers because of borrowing money. The problem of borrowing money to others is that less them will return or they will not return in time. As for me, I will measure the friends, to see if they are worth to be trusted.

借钱是一个敏感的话题，一些朋友因为借钱而成为陌生人。借钱给人的问题在于很少人会还钱或者及时还钱。对于我来说，我会衡量下朋友，看看他们是否值得信任。

For those friends whom I get so familiar with, I will borrow money to them with

hesitation. Some friends such as the ones who grow up with me from my childhood, I trust them totally. We get so familiar with each other, knowing each other so well, so there is no doubt that they will return my money. They are the real friends, they share happiness and sorrow with me, so they worth to be trusted.

对于那些我很熟悉的朋友来说，我会毫不犹豫的借钱给他们。一些朋友比如从小和我一起长大的人，我完全信任他们。我们彼此熟悉，彼此了解，因此毫无疑问，他们会还我钱。他们是真正的朋友，和我分享喜怒哀乐，所以他们值得信任。

For those friends whom I don’t get so familiar, I need to take consideration. If the one who gets bad reputation, I will make some excuses and avoiding borrowing money to him. To the one who I am not so sure whether he will return, I will make some discount, giving him small part of the money, telling him there is no need for him to return, thus our friendship won’t be hurt, at the same time, he won’t ask me again.

对于那些我不熟悉的人，我会考虑下。如果那个人有不好的名声，我会找些借口，避免借钱给他。对于那些我不确定是否会还钱的人，我会打个折扣，给他小部分的钱，告诉他没有必要还了，这样既不会伤害到友情，同时，他也不会再问我。

Everyone will go through the hard time, they need help, but we must measure

whether they worth to be trusted, or we will lose our money.

每个人都会有困难的时候，但是我们必须衡量下他们是否值得信任，不然，我们就会损失钱。