《刮痧》观后感 《刮痧》这部电影大一时看过一次，英语老师以其为主题为大家讲述文化差异的现实问题。忍不住又看了一遍，当大同因为不能走正门去完成与儿子共度圣诞节的许诺而不得不在无任何保护措施的情况下徒手带着给儿子的猴子礼物爬上九楼的呢一刻，我忍不住为之动容感慨，泪水决堤······

电影讲述了电脑游戏设计师许大同与妻子简宁在美国奋斗了8年，事业有成。一次意外却令美好的家庭变得愁云惨雾：5岁的儿子生病了，老父亲用传统的中国民间刮痧帮孙子治病。大同夫妻继而被控告虐待儿童，一个又一个物证人证令夫妻俩百口莫辩，西医根本无法了解这种传统中国疗法。因为这件事，父子与夫妻都不得已的分开了。大同伤心欲绝，面对儿子与妻子，在现实面前，他几度情绪失控，最终他为了完成对儿子的许诺，顺着楼外的水管爬上九楼只为给儿子惊喜，让人不禁潸然泪下。电影中，丹尼斯的可爱以及孩童的幽默让人对他不得不爱，大同作为一个在美国打拼多年的传统中国人也表现出了中国人孝顺父母、爱家庭、肯吃苦的品质，只是在特殊情况下不能控制自己的情绪，但从一个父亲的角度考虑，都是可以理解的。 电影情节不论从哪一方面讲，都是有道理的，爷爷为给爱孙治病而用中国古老的传统中医疗法以求孩子早日康复，美国儿童福利局为保护一个普通的儿童远离虐待不辞辛苦保护孩子，父亲为与孩子在一起以身试法，我看到了一个真正地中国人，约翰问简宁说，为什么大同不愿意承认刮痧是老父亲所为，简宁回答：“因为他是中国人”。约

翰似懂非懂的看着大同搀扶着老父亲走远，那一刻，我为我是一个中国人而自豪！

一场误会，因为文化差异引起的风波让我们看到了真正地中国人，一个真正地父亲，同时，我们不得不承认，大同在沟通方面也存在一定的误区。首先，大同不能很好的控制自己的情绪，无论是从第一次听证会上的无力解释还是在第二次听证会上的暴跳如雷，急于求成的心理将儿子日后的抚养权利推向了正式审判程序，其次，大同在面对问题时不能心平气和的思考而是极度愤怒，错误的沟通方式阻碍解决矛盾与误会，最后，他是一个孝子，但是在无助与无力时选择逃避，这种头脑发热的表现证明他没有足够的耐心去解释解决问题，在心理上逃避问题，逃避沟通，只能进一步加深矛盾与误会。当然，以上的感言也只是一个旁观者的观后说辞，作为一位负责人的父亲，说又能体会他心中有儿不能认、有家不能回的悲伤呢？

良好的沟通可以避免很多不必要的麻烦，如果一开始，大同就带领约翰去做刮痧，证明问题的真相，也就不会有呢么多面对现实的无奈，遇事沉着冷静，掌握沟通艺术，方能掌控全局。

文化差异确实在显示中阻碍了民族之间的沟通，所以学习沟通艺术，不论与同族同胞还是外国友人都是十分必要的，学习沟通艺术，促进文化交流，与你共勉。

金融2012级2班

马聪慧

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第二篇：电影《刮痧》观后感Impression On the Film “Gua Sha”

Impression On the Film “GuaSha”

“GuaSha” is a movie about the differences between American and Chinese culture. Xudatong is a video games designer in St. Louis. When his father visits from China, he performs “GuaSha” (a Chinese traditional treatment) on his grandson, which leaves bright red marks on the skin and causes a lawsuit of child abuse. In the court, Datong loses his mind so that finally he loses custody of his son. I think this scene is shocking and thought-provoking to most of the Chinese audiences. But the most impressing scene to me is the ending. Datong wants to see his son in Christmas eve, he has to climb a pipe to the ninth floor which his son lives. I think the pipe is not only a pipe, but also a gap, a deep gap between American and 5000-year Chinese culture. He wants to climb over the gap and he will never succeed, perhaps no Chinese people really could succeed.

The film “GuaSha” reflects the difference of value and culture views between western society and orient society. China society has been receiving impact of Confucianism for thousands years. Confucianism is known as paying regard to human relationship and ethic. Piety, courtesy and loyalism are most important ethic. But in Western culture which is more emphasis on individualism, independence and equality. So conflicts in culture and value are unavoidable. These conflicts have shown in the story.

So, how to avoid the tragedy of the story? From my point of view, we must strengthen the East-West cultural exchange and learning, and only with respect to different cultures and inclusive will it be possible to avoid the culture and values of conflict.

All in all, the film is in the context of Western cultural differences, in addition to the performance of his son can not be split between husband and wife's love, he also seen the Chinese people's moral integrity, but also a success.

By Wang Shuohua

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