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别让人生套牢

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有句常用的格言颇值得思考：“性格决定命运”。当然，命运如果说有，也是一个复杂的综合体，恐怕不是单一因素能够决定的。但这并不妨碍人们拿这句

话来励志：毕竟自己能把握的事情不多，完善性格应该算一件。

前两天股市暴跌，引发吐槽无数。用得最多的词，便是“跳楼”，喊着跳楼，当然不会真的跳，更多的是以一种调侃和自嘲，舒缓伤害，并通过大家的回应，

来确认一件事：“原来你也在这里”，于是心情就不再那么糟了。

性格能不能决定命运不好说，但老股民心里大都有个比较确定的判断：性格决定炒股收益。也许是因为后者更好验证。股市里曲曲折折、上上下下的线条，

某种意义上可以视为人生的放大，从中可以窥见不少的奥妙。

有两个小伙伴都喜欢炒股。一个自号“股痴”，无时无刻不盯盘，股票分时图精确反映出他心理的变化；白天基本无心工作，晚上做研究至深夜；甚至为了看盘，推掉所有出差的活儿。爱人实在看不下去了，骂了一句戳心窝子的话：“你要在工作上有这份投入，早升职了。”还有一个则截然相反，买股票的时候也做功课，甚至利用周末时间实地调研公司，一旦买定则离手，该干吗干吗去，工作、

学习、带娃、旅游一样不耽误。

结果谁收益高呢？居然是后一个。前一个喜欢追涨杀跌，靠各种消息操作，股票一不涨便卖。结果，他怎么也追不上各种涨停股，常常一进就被套，辛辛苦苦下来，这么好的市场竟然还略亏；而后一个持有近一年的股票已经翻了5倍多。

股票是个零和游戏，只有那些找准了自己的逻辑和节奏，并有严明操作纪律的人才能笑着离开；而那些把情绪交给市场，在贪婪与恐惧间腹背受敌的，即使

短期内获利，最终也会成为被收割的“韭菜”。

股市不是生活的全部，却可以预演生活。把股票当做人生修炼场，这或许是比获得收益更重要的“大用”。毕竟，股市被套牢尚可趴着不动；人生如果被套

牢，麻烦可就大了。

Don't let life hold up

Mu Yi

There is a common saying that is worth thinking: "character decides destiny". Of course, if the fate of the fate, but also a complex complex, I am afraid not a single factor can be determined. But this does not prevent people from taking this sentence to inspirational: after all, you can not grasp the things, improve the character should

be considered a.

The first two days of the stock market plummeted, causing numerous tucao. The most used words, jumping, and cried, jumping, of course, not really jump, more is a kind of ridicule and self mockery, relieve the damage, and by people's response to confirm one thing: "originally you also in here", so the mood is not so bad

in a.

Character can not determine the fate of hard to say, but the old people in the heart mostly have a more determined judgment: character determines the stock market gains. Perhaps because the latter better verification. The stock market

twists and turns, remittent lines, a sense can be regarded for the life of the

amplification, from can sneak a peek at some of the mystery.

There are two small partners like stocks. A self, "shares crazy", constantly stare disk, stock map accurately reflects the changes his mind; daytime basic careless work at night to do to study late into the night; even to read the tape to push out all the business work. Love really could not stand, scold a sentence stamp heart son: "are you going to have this in work invested early promotion." Another diametrically opposite, buy stocks when also do homework, even on weekends field research company, once bought the rule from the hand, to the why why, work, study,

and with the baby, tourism as not to delay.

Who gains high? Is actually after a. Before a love chase sell, rely on a variety of news, the stock rose does not sell. Results, he did not catch all trading stocks, often into a quilt, hard down, such a good market even slight deficit; then a hold nearly a year of

stock is over 5 times more.

Stock is a zero sum game, only those who find their logic and rhythm, and strict discipline to leave with a smile; while those of the mood left to the market, in greed and fear were hit with a double whammy, even if profits in the short

term will eventually become to be harvested "leek."

The stock market is not the whole life, but life can preview. The stock as a life practice field, which may be more important than the gain of the more important". After all, the stock market is still stuck lying motionless; if life is stuck, could be in

big trouble.