”《庄子》曰：“三王、五帝之礼义法度，其犹楂梨橘柚，虽其味相反，而皆可于口也。”

《太公六韬》曰：“礼者，理之粉泽。” 《论语》曰：“不学礼，无以立。” 《释名》曰：“礼，体也。言得事之体也。 《诗》曰：“相鼠有体，人而无礼；人而无礼，胡不遄死？”

《礼记·乐记》曰：“簠簋俎豆，制度文章，礼之器也。升降上下，周旋裼袭，礼之文也。”

又《燕居》曰：“礼者何也？即事之治也。君子有其事必有其治。治国而无礼，譬犹瞽之无相与，伥伥乎其何之！譬如终夜有求於幽室之中，非烛何见？若无礼，则手足无所措，耳目无所加，进退揖让无所制。”

又《曲礼》：“君子恭敬撙节，退让以明礼，曰：鹦鹉能言，不离飞鸟；猩猩能言，不离禽兽。今人而无礼，虽能言，不亦禽兽之心乎？”

又《礼运》曰：“礼之於人也，犹酒之有糵也。君子以厚，小人以薄。” 礼之用，和为贵。先王之道，斯为美；小大由之。往而不来，非礼也；来而不往，亦非礼也。 来而不往非礼也-----语出《礼记·曲礼上》 -礼貌使有礼貌的人喜悦，也使那些受人以礼貌相待的人们喜悦。------孟德斯鸠

礼貌是儿童与青年所应该特别小心地养成习惯的第一件大事。 -----约翰·洛克

礼貌使人类共处的金钥匙。 -------松苏内吉

礼仪不良有两种：第一种是忸怩羞怯；第二种是行为不检点和轻慢；要避免这两种情形，就只有好好地遵守下面这条规则，就是，不要看不起自己，也不要看不起别人。

礼仪的目的与作用本在使得本来的顽梗变柔顺，使人们的气质变温和，使他尊重别人，和别人合得来。------约翰·洛克

对人无礼，不是一种恶劣性格的表现，而是多种恶习的集中，如懒散、愚蠢、妒忌、粗心大意、爱慕虚荣、对人缺乏了解而妄加轻视------布鲁雅尔

千里送鹅毛，礼轻意重

礼貌是最容易做到的事，也是最珍贵的东西！ ------冈察尔

礼仪的目的与作用在于使得本来的顽梗变柔顺，使人们的气质变温和，使他敬重别人，和别人合得来。 ------洛克对人无礼，不是一种恶劣性格的表现，而是多种恶习的集中，如懒散、愚蠢、妒忌、粗心大意、爱慕虚荣、对人缺乏了解而妄加轻视。 ------布鲁雅尔一个人的礼貌就是一面照出他的肖像的镜子。------歌德

礼貌经常可以代替最高贵的感情。 ------梅里美人恶礼不恶。若要好，大让小。 ------谚语

棋逢对手，先礼后兵。------谚语

怪人不知礼，知礼不怪人。 -----谚语

-生活赋予我们的一种巨大的和无限高贵的礼品，这就是青春：充满着力量，充满着期待、志愿，充满着求知和斗争的志向，充满着希望、信心的青春。 -----奥斯特洛夫斯基

-品德，应该高尚些；处世，应该坦率些；举止，应该礼貌些。 -----孟德斯鸠

婚礼铺张，两败俱伤。 -----（满族）谚语 官不打送礼的，狗不咬拉屎的。------谚语

野狗不咬拉屎的，老爷不打送礼的。 ------（蒙古族）谚语

没有礼貌的人，就象没有窗户的房屋。 -----（维吾尔族）谚语礼多人不怪。-----谚语

-不是真正的朋友，再重的礼品也敲不开心扉。

金质礼品会断送友谊。因为赠礼者也许的确会忘记自己的慨举，但受礼者却永远会感此厚恩。

------威·史密斯

 

第二篇：关于宽恕的名言和谚语

关于宽恕的名言和谚语

Ausonius (奥索尼厄斯)

Forgive many things in others; nothing in yourself.

宽恕他人之种种；你罪无存。

Madame Dorothée Deluzy (桃乐丝·德路兹夫人)

It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend.

宽恕敌人比宽恕朋友容易

Mahatma Gandhi (圣雄甘地)

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

弱者永不宽恕，宽恕是强者的特性。

George Bernard Shaw (萧伯纳)

The secret of forgiving everything is to understand nothing.

宽恕一切的秘诀在于一无所知。

Josh Billings (乔希·比林斯)

There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.

没有比宽恕更彻底的复仇方式了。

Oscar Wilde (奥斯卡·怀尔德)

Always forgive your enemies--nothing annoys them so much.

尽管去宽恕你的敌人吧——没有什么比这更让他们恼火了。

Alexander Pope (亚历山大·蒲柏)

To err is human; to forgive, divine.

犯错的是人；宽恕的，是神。

Ed Howe (艾德·豪)

A woman who can't forgive should never have more than a nodding acquaintance with a man.

不懂宽恕的妇人永远只能是男人的点头之交。

Mahatma Gandhi (英雄甘地)

If we practice and eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, soon the whole world will be blind and toothless.

如果我们都要以眼还眼、以牙还牙，那这个世界很快就盲眼且无牙。

Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

宽恕就是不再去想以往的事情本来可以更好。

from Live and Learn and Pass it On -age 51 选自《生活着，学习着，传承着——51 岁

I've learned that when you have an argument with your spouse, the first one who says, 'I'm sorry I hurt your feelings; please forgive me,' is the winner.

我听说，如果和另一半吵架，先说这句话的人会是赢家——“对不起，我伤害了你的感情，请原谅我。”

Alden Nowlan (奥尔登·诺兰)

The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise.

当一个孩子意识到大人们都不完美时，他就成为青少年；当他原谅他们时，他就变成了成年人；当他原谅自己时，他便成了智者。

Mahatma Gandhi (圣雄甘地)

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

弱者永不宽恕，宽恕是强者的特性。

Unknown (佚名)

To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was YOU.

宽恕就是释放囚犯，然后知囚犯即是你自己。

Jean Paul Richter (吉恩·保罗·里克特)

Humanity is never so beautiful as when praying for forgiveness, or else forgiving another.

祈求宽恕和宽恕别人，再没有比此时的人性更美的了。

Koran 《古兰经》

He who forgiveth, and is reconciled unto his enemy, shall receive his reward from God; for he loveth not the unjust doers.

恕者，及与敌为和者，真主必赏之；盖行不义者不得天宠者也。

Henry Ward Beecher (亨利·沃德·比奇)

I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note--torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.

我可以宽恕，但我不能忘记。这只是“我不宽恕”的另一种说法罢了。宽恕就得想取消一张票据一样——撕成两半，烧掉，再也无法向任何人出示。

Catherine Ponder （凯瑟琳·庞德）

When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.

当你憎恨他人的时候，你就通过一条情感的链条和那个人或状况连在一起了。而且这个链条坚强如钢。宽恕是熔解这条链条解放自己的唯一法门。

Israel Zangwill （伊斯雷尔 赞格威尔）

The Past: Our cradle, not our prison; there is danger as well as appeal in its glamour. The past is for inspiration, not imitation, for continuation, not repetition.

过去：我们的摇篮，而非我们的监狱；它的魅力既吸引人又充满危险。过去是用来启发灵感，而非用于模仿，可供继续，而非重复。

Doc Childre and Howard Martin, The HeartMath Solution 奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁 《心智算数解决方案》

As difficult as it seems, you can be sure of this: At the core of the heart, you have the power to

move beyond the old issues that are still hindering your freedom. The hardest things—the ones that push you up against your limits—are the very things you need to address to make a quantum leap into a fresh inner and outer life.

虽然费解，但千真万确：在你的心灵深处，隐藏着一种力量，它可以使你远离妨碍自由的陈年旧事。那些最难办的事——那些有助于突破你的局限性的事——正是你需要重点解决的事。解决了以后 ，能给你的精神生活和外在生活来一个大飞跃。

Doc Childre and Howard Martin, The HeartMath Solution 奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁 《心智算数解决方案》

In the long run, it's not a question of whether they deserve to be forgiven. You're not forgiving them for their sake. You're doing it for yourself. For your own health and well-being, forgiveness is simply the most energy-efficient option. It frees you from the incredibly toxic, debilitating drain of holding a grudge. Don't let these people live rent free in your head. If they hurt you before, why let them keep doing it year after year in your mind? It's not worth it but it takes heart effort to stop it. You can muster that heart power to forgive them as a way of looking out for yourself. It's one thing you can be totally selfish about.

长远的眼光来看，问题不在于他们是否值得宽恕。你宽恕他们并非为他们着想，而是为了自己。为了你自己的健康和和福利而去宽恕，这是最省事的选择。它使你远离愤懑所带来的极大毒害和精力 消耗。别让这些人免租金居住你的大脑。如果他们曾经伤害你，为什么还年复一年地让他们在你的心灵中继续为害？这不值得。也要用心努力才能制止这一切。你可以集中心力去宽恕，以便找回自 己。这完全是一件利己的事。

Doc Childre and Howard Martin, The HeartMath Solution

奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁 《心智算数解决方案》

Take it slowly. The deepest resentments are wrapped up in a lot of hurt and pain. We think we're protecting ourselves by not forgiving. Acknowledge that and go easy on yourself. Forgiveness means that you've decided not to let it keep festering inside even if it only comes up once in awhile. Forgiveness is a powerful yet challenging tool that will support and honor you, even in the most extreme circumstances.

别急着这样想：极度的憎恨里面包含着太多伤痛。我们以为不宽恕等于自我保护。要承认以下说法并善待自己：宽恕意味着你决心不让怨恨在内心化脓，即便它每隔一会儿才爆发一次。宽恕是一种 强有力但又难掌控的工具，它能给你支持、给你荣誉，甚至在极度严酷的环境下也是如此。

Doc Childre and Howard Martin, The HeartMath Solution

奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁 《心智算数解决方案》

The incoherence that results from holding on to resentments and unforgiving attitudes keeps you from being aligned with your true self. It can block you from your next level of quality life experience. Metaphorically, it's the curtain standing between the room you're living in now and a new room, much larger and full of beautiful objects. The act of forgiveness removes the curtain. Clearing up your old accounts can free up so much energy that you jump right into a whole new house. Forgiving releases you from the punishment of a self-made prison where you are both the inmate and the jailer.

长期的愤恨、不宽恕的态度带来的内心不和谐不统一，使你不能和你的“真我”结为一体，妨碍你享受更高层次的生活体验。打个比方来说，它像是一幅帘子，悬挂在你现在所住的房间和一个新房 间之间。而这个新房间相对大得多、有更多漂亮的物品。宽恕可以揭去这幅帘子。清除过去的芥蒂可以解放你的能量，使你直接跳入一个全新的房子。宽恕解除你的自我惩罚，把你从自建的监狱中 释放。在那个监狱里，你既是囚犯，又是看守。

Sara Paddison, Hidden Power of the Heart 萨拉·帕蒂森 《心的潜能》

Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change. Don't worry whether or not they finally understand you. Love them and release them. Life feeds back truth to people in its own way and time—just like it does for you and me.

真心的宽恕，不指望他人的道歉或改变。不必担心他们最终会不会理解你。爱他们，放过他们。生活会用他自己的方式和时机向人们回馈真理——正如他对你我所做的一样。

David McArthur & Bruce McArthur, The Intelligent Heart

戴维·麦克阿瑟 和 布鲁斯·马克阿瑟，《聪明的心》

Many people are afraid to forgive because they feel they must remember the wrong or they will not learn from it. The opposite is true. Through forgiveness, the wrong is released from its emotional stranglehold on us so that we can learn from it. Through the power and intelligence of the heart, the release of forgiveness brings expanded intelligence to work with the situation more effectively.

很多人害怕宽恕，因为他们觉得，得记住罪过，否则无法从中吸取教训。其实反过来才对。通过宽恕，罪过松开了对我们情感的束缚。这样，我们才能从中吸取教训。通过心的力量和智慧来实行宽 恕，可以带来更大的智慧，使我们更有效地应对各种情况。