女人俱乐部观后感

女人俱乐部>观后感

《女人俱乐部》，一部我非常喜欢的电视剧，女主角也是我非常喜欢的女神们！

小时候就爱看女神们的电视剧：最爱李若彤的《神雕侠侣》，袁洁莹的《人龙传说》，陈慧珊的《冲上云霄》，还有张慧仪在《西>游记》中美丽动人的蜘蛛精恩恩和万妖女王……

虽然自己不是那个年代的人，是一个十足的90后，但是却很喜欢剧中那些80年代风格的插曲，谭咏麟，陈百强……这都是妈妈这一辈最爱的歌手们。可以说，虽然没有经历过那个年代，却通过剧中的每一个角色，每一首插曲，让自己亲临了那个年代。

听着一首林欣彤和关淑怡合唱的《星斗群》，又想到了姐妹六人的深情。友谊，就好像天边的星斗一般，一颗星星或许不耀眼，但当组成了星斗群，那一定是夜空中，最美丽，最耀眼的一方。

我喜欢Mclub，不仅仅只是因为看曾经的女神们，更喜欢那种好姐妹间纯纯的友谊。就像小诗和朱莉那样，即使有再多的误会，怨念，甚至是仇恨，只要坚信友谊的存在，没有什么是跨不过的坎。

其实不止对曾经女神的思念，更有对新人的赞赏。这次在Mclub中出演女神年少时期的姑娘们，其实个个都很到位。喜欢小诗的天然呆，珍妮的霸气，cindy的纯洁，肥菜的可爱，小吱喳的心直口快，还有朱莉的小心思。其实我最喜欢的，就是朱莉。年轻时的朱莉其实是一个很难演绎的角色，她既有少女那种充满了对未来的期待的思想，同时又有一些小心机，让人又爱又恨。总而言之，新人跨出了第一步，能够给观众一些很好的印象，已经很不错了！

其实志伟哥做监制，就已经是一个亮点。还有大结局的客串，真的差点就笑出声来了——希望TVB以后可以在来多一些这样温馨美好的剧集！

以上就是对《女人俱乐部》大致影评，充满了我的爱意。

 

第二篇：《男人来自火星,女人来自金星》读后感(英语)

Impression after Reading

---Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

I am 22 years old. I have never had a boyfriend. If I am an American, people will think there must be something wrong with me. But fortunately, I am a Chinese. Nobody will laugh at me or think I am weird or something for I having never hanged out with a boy for almost 22 years. Well, I really do not know much about males and I even feel a little afraid when I am walking alone with a boy, especially a boy I like..

This term, I bought a book with my curiosity. It is a best-selling book in America. The name of the book is Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. The author is John Gray, Ph.D. He is an internationally recognized expert in the fields of communications and relationships. There was one sentence on the cover that caught my eyes: The classic guide to understand the opposite sex. I think that is the reason that I bought it----getting to know boys.

The beginning of the book is quite imaginary. Suppose that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. One day long ago the Martians, looking through their telescopes, discovered the Venusians. Just glimpsing the Venusians awakened feelings they had never known. They fell in love and quickly invented space travel and flew to Venus. Well, you may doubt how they can fall in love with each other and how they will get along well with each other.

In this book, we can not only understand the opposite sex, but also know how to establish a harmonious relationship with the opposite sex. There are several things that the author explores: how men’s and women’s values are inherently different and try to understand the two biggest mistakes we make in relating to the opposite sex; the different ways men and women cope with stress; how to motivate the opposite sex; how men and women have different needs for intimacy; how to avoid painful arguments; the ways to communicate with each other during difficult times; the four seasons of love.

With discovering so many things, I think what I learn from the book is not just the opposite sex, love, and marriage, but more about human beings minds. In other words, it is like a psychological book, teaching us how to act and how to understand others’ acts. It is a kind of reflection. It happens in everyone, not just in the opposite sex. As long as we know each others’ thoughts, we can understand each other better,

as the human nature’s point of view.

There are obvious differences between men and women. Men gain self-satisfaction through proving their power and ability. To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he does not know what to do or that he can not do it on his own. People say men are always more sensitive than women, it is true to some degree. When men are faced with a problem, they will try to find a solution rather than just talking about the problems like women. In daily life, they pay more attention to “objects” and “things” rather than people and feelings. And especially when they feel needed, they can also feel great happiness. I always wondered that why it seems that in a romantic relationship, men often give more than women do. The reason seems to be apparent now, it is because when a man’s girlfriend or wife needs him, he is eager to help her and meet her needs, which will give him a sense of achievements. Therefore, when you have a boyfriend, do not always do things on your own or reject his help, which can help to keep a good relationship. Just like the author said,” Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed.”

Well, the description of the life on Venus is quite true in the real world. Women are more interested in communication, beauty and relationship. I think I am the person like that. The same will be true to most of girls. We do not usually talking about politics, sports or economy and we like to share things with others and chat with others about our emotions, life or the people around us. In the book, the author also mentions that when women are faced with a problem, they like to talk every detail of it because they may feel better after talking them out. Well, I think I am a little different on this point. I prefer to find a way to solve my problems instead of complaining or talking. What’s more, I won’t feel better if I just talk about it, I need to solve it. It may like the way that men use. But if I have a boyfriend, first I will tell him about my problem, then we can find solutions together to solve the problems. That is the way I like.

Of course, there are still many other differences. But the most important thing for us to do is not to focus on the difference, but learn how to accept and interpret them. I think it is also vital to build a happy marriage. When a man and a woman from two planets live together, it is not easy to maintain the happiness all the time. The different habits, languages and reactions toward things will all be obstacles. Sometimes, each of them may have an incorrect belief. A woman is vulnerable when she feels she does not deserve to be loved, be cared for or be cherished. For women, being disappointed, abandoned or ignored is especially painful. In order to compensate for this

fundamental fear, they give and give, but deep inside they do not feel worthy of receiving. While men hold an incorrect belief that they are afraid of not being good enough, they are not competent enough to give what women want. So it is just as women are afraid of receiving and men are afraid of giving. On this topic, I must say I also feel the same way sometimes. I do not know whether boys will feel like that, but I am sure I do. Precisely, it is not just constrained between male and female, this feeling happens in daily life at any time about all the people around me. I always try my best to be a good, so I try to help, to forgive, and to give. I hope what I do can be recognized by others and gain their love, care or attention. But sometimes, things work the other way around. What I mostly can not accept is being ignored. Getting hurt is inevitable and I do not want to give up being a good person even though I have a great disappointment in my heart. In other words, I do not help others that because hoping others’ return or I even think I do not deserve to get good returns, just because I want to be a good human being who being good to her partners.

To be honest, I can get happy when being good to others, loving them and giving more. Since love has the magical power to make people happy, strong and unified, to preserve the sweet love between men and women seems quite important, especially when they get married.

Basically, we need to know what he or she is saying, because men and women speak different languages. Here are some examples in the book. “I am so tired, I can’t do anything” translated into Martian means “I have been doing so much today, I really need a rest before I can do anything more. I am so lucky to have your support. Would you give me a hug and reassure me that I am doing a good job and that I deserve a rest?” Without this translation, when a woman say “I am so tired, I can’t do anything.” a man may hear “I do everything and you do nothing. You should do more. I can’t do it all. I feel so hopeless. I want a‘real man’to live with. Picking you was a big mistake.” “This house is always mess” translated into Martian means “Today I feel like relaxing, but the house is so messy. I am frustrated and I need a rest. I hope you don’t expect me to clean it all up. Would you agree with me that it is a mess and then offer help to clean up part of it?” Without this translation, a man may hear “This house is a mess because of you. I do possible to clean it up, and before I have finished, you have messed it up again. You are a lazy slob and I do not want to live with you unless you change. Clean up or clean out!”

Looking at the examples, I begin to think about my parents. It is kind of similar, but my parents’ situation is worse than that. If my mother says the house is messy, my

father would say it is your responsibility to clean it up, not mine, it is not useful to tell me about this fact. Oh, my god! I hate it when my father says that. What a kind of masculinism! Sometimes I really think there is no way for the opposite sex can understand you completely, and you may get enraged about it. But we still need to work out some ways to get close to understand each other. That is why the book is so famous because people are seeking for solutions in order to avoid pain.

In addition to the different languages, habits and behaviors can also matter. A woman can tell a man she doesn’t like the way he dresses and ask him if he can change something. But if he is sensitive about this comment, she should apologize and say “I am sorry, I didn’t mean to tell you how to dress.” If she doesn’t like his table manner, she can not just say it in front of people, what she should do is to wait for a time when no one else is around and then share her feelings. Don’t tell him how he should behave or that he is wrong, instead share honest feelings in a loving and brief way.

What’s more, men and women use different ways to cope with stress. Women like to talk while men like to keep silent and go to their cave. When a man goes into a cave, he is saying “I need some time to think about this, please stop talking to me”. He may not realize that a woman may hear “I don’t love you, I can’t stand to listen to you, I am leaving and I am never coming back.” In order to reassure a woman that he doesn’t mean this, he should say like this “I need some time to think about this, I will be back” or “I need some time to be alone, I will be back”. “I will be back”, these simple words are appreciated by a woman and she feels still being loved. So she will feel relief to let him be alone for a while. That is the right way that makes a woman to understand a man’s cave.

What I can tell from above is that men are always expecting a gentle way from women and women are always expecting an assured way. When misunderstandings arise, remember that we speak different languages; take the time necessary to translate what your partner really means or wants to say. This takes practice.

After so much discussion about the differences between men and women, it can be concluded that women need caring and men need trust; women need understanding and men need acceptance; women need respect and men need appreciation; women need devotion and men need admiration; women need validation and men need approval; women need reassurance and men need encouragement. Different needs require different understandings. We all know that love has four seasons. In spring, people fall in love. Love seems eternal. It is a magic time. In summer, it is a time for

realizing. We realize that out partner is not so perfect. We become frustrated and disappointed. In autumn, it is a golden time----rich and fulfilling. We experience a more mature love that accepts and understands each other’s imperfections. In winter, it is a time that painful feelings emerge and it is a time of reflection, healing and renewal. After the cold winter journey, we are then able to open hearts and feel the springtime of love.

This book is not only talking about love, the opposite sex, marriage, it is also talking about understanding, human nature and relationship. Whenever you walk in one’s life, you can not just walk away after you check it up. Accept the differences between you, and try to understand them and make you closer. When you have a good time, open your heart to enjoy it; when you have a bad time, try to find a way to heal it. We don’t need to find out whether love is eternal or not, we just need to find a good way to protect it, improve it, and feel it.